The Queen of Sensuality herself, Eleanor Hadley, shared with us her must-have items that every pleasure toolkit needs.
These products work together to enhance pleasure, whether you’re wanting a little self-love or looking to introduce some products into your bedroom repertoire.
From vibrators and dildos to lube and sanitisation, this list has everything you need to get you going.
All that’s left to do is ‘add to cart’ and let the pleasure begin.
Womanizer Premium Eco Smart Silence Clitoral Stimulator
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Your stimulation just got even better with the Womanizer Premium Eco Smart Silence Clitoral Stimulator. This contactless clitoral stimulator is both optimised in technology and design, making it ready for some eco-friendly fun. The unit is 100% recyclable with an eco-friendly and vegan exchangeable battery, which works to deliver 12 intensity levels for all the feel good sensations. The Smart Silence function means it only turns itself on when in contact with the skin for a discreet experience.
Why?
“Everyone needs a clitoral stimulator in their lives! This vibe uses Pleasure Air Technology to mimic the feeling of receiving oral. Perfect for those (the majority of vulva owners) who require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm,” Eleanor says.
Dame Arc Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Vibrator
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Seeking out your pleasure zones is in the job description of the Dame Arc Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Vibrator. This silicone G-spot vibrator has a squishy bulb, which is made for precise and targeted pleasure. With five rumbly patterns, each with five intensities, you can customise the vibe to be ultra-satisfying to your needs. The quiet motor and travel lock function are designed to be discreet and the ergonomic handle makes it easy to get the right angle.
Why?
“The G-Spot is an incredible pleasure zone that can lead to powerful orgasms. I love how this vibe is conveniently curved to hit the G-zone perfectly.” Eleanor says.
Satisfyer Pro Rechargeable G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
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Seek out a blended orgasm, aka where your clitoral and G-spot orgasms meet, with the Satisfyer Pro Rechargeable G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator. The Air Pulse Technology with 11 suction intensities and 10 vibration patterns works to take your pleasure to the next level.
The pressure waves and vibration are separately controllable, the ergonomic shape has easy-to-use push buttons and the USB rechargeable capabilities mean you can use it anywhere in the world.
Why?
“Get the best of both worlds with this dual action vibe. Enjoy the feeling of penetration and G-spot stimulation at the same time as external Air Pulse Technology to stimulate the clitoris,” Eleanor says.
“Perfect for experiencing almighty blended orgasms. Some of the most powerful orgasms come from dual stimulation and this vibe is perfect to get you there.”
Lovehoney Marbled Sensual Glass Prober
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The Lovehoney Marbled Sensual Glass Prober feels as good as it looks. This wavy glass dildo, with a stunning marble design creates a seductive look that goes hand-in-hand with how it feels. Perfect for both vaginal and anal play, it can also be used externally as a massager, is gently curved for added stimulation and is suitable for temperature play and to use with all types of lubricant.
Why?
“I think everyone should have a glass wand in their toolkit. The firmer material allows you to give yourself a sensual internal massage, awakening and re-sensitising your vaginal walls. The result? More pleasure,” Eleanor says.
“Explore different pleasure zones (G-spot, A-spot, P-spot, cervix!). A great option to encourage you to slow things down and focus on subtle sensations.”
Dame Eva II Hands-Free Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator
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Sit back and relax as the Dame Eva II Hands-Free Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator does all the hard work for you. The purpose of this vibrator is to be worn during intercourse for shared, hands-free pleasure. The innovative flexible wings anchor under the labia to keep it secure in place and the strap-free, hands-free design is particularly non-intrusive.
The three speeds allow for customisable play sessions, it is USB chargeable for worldwide use and it is waterproof for any underwater adventures you may like to have.
Why?
“Such a cool idea! (I haven’t tried this one yet but I think it’s ingenious),” Eleanor says. “This hands-free clitoral vibrator is such a fabulous option for those moments when you want to lay back and enjoy – or perhaps your hands are occupied elsewhere. Wonderful for solo sex, but epic to add to partnered sex too.”
Lovehoney Classic Silicone Beginner’s Butt Plug
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For those anal newbies, try out the Lovehoney Classic Silicone Beginner’s Butt Plug. The sleek silicone design is great for beginners to anal play and the firm-yet-flexible body, slender neck and tapered tip allow for pleasurable insertion and wear. The graduated shape provides gentle introduction to anal stimulation and the flared base give peace of mind and perineum stimulation.
Why?
“A perfect intro to anal pleasure, this butt plug is easy to use. Perfect for anyone interested in anal play, but perhaps nervous,” Eleanor says. “This can help to get you used to anal penetration and is a great option for solo self pleasure sessions to experience double penetration.”
Oh La La Water-Based Lubricant 100ml
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One thing that goes hand-in-hand with this list is lube. The Oh La La Water-Based Lubricant is vegan-friendly and cruelty-free and the water base provides an enhanced glide. It is suitable for use with all toy materials and won’t stain your sheets. The pump top offers easy dispensing, which is handy when you have no time to waste.
Why?
“An essential for all solo self pleasure is a good quality lube. Use this liberally (especially for anal play!) to increase sensation and enhance pleasure,” Eleanor says.
Lelo Premium Cleaning Sex Toy Cleaner Spray 60ml
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Keep your toys clean with the Lelo Premium Cleaning Sex Toy Cleaner Spray. This sex toy cleaner keeps toys clean and hygienic play after play. The water-based pH balanced formula is safe to use on all toys and all bodies and the travel-size bottle can come with you wherever you go. The unmarked bottle is super discreet so no one will know what it’s for.
Why?
“Super important for any pleasure toolkit is a sex toy cleaner. Keep all your pleasure tools safe and clean with this convenient spray,” Eleanor says.
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